January 2011
a poem for swingers, a poem for the playgirls of...
ebonicsoliloquies: I like women who haven’t lived with too many men. I don’t expect virginity but I simply prefer women who haven’t been rubbed raw by experience. there is a quality about women who choose men sparingly; it appears in their walk in their eyes in their laughter and in their gentle hearts. women who have had too many men seem to choose the next one out of revenge rather...
Jan 1st
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i'mma stay that btch.
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December 2010
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Dec 29th
Anonymous asked: I've been sitting behind my keyboard for a few minutes trying to collect my thoughts, and words to express how amazing &inspiring you, and Des are but everything i type seems to much like a groupie letter, or it mimic things others have said to/about you two. So instead of telling everything you already know, i would like to use this opportunity to talk to you. (well ask you a few things)...
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Dec 22nd
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Anonymous asked: I understand you are rly into shoes and I was wondering what running/ working out shoes do you use? Or can you recommend some? I am looking for a good purchase.
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jonnyboycruz-deactivated2011081 asked: i dig your style yo! :]
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eddyberto-deactivated20110504 asked: you're beautiful in every way possible.
Dec 20th
Anonymous asked: First off, I LOVE your blog! Your strength is AMAZING, and I wish you all the love and joy your heart can handle. :)

Now, I am 24 and many of the people I hang out with are well into their 30's. I do have friends my age but they are up north, so I only get to see them every now and then. So, there is a chick here that I have become close to. She is awesome, but when we get...
Dec 20th
you can't expect someone to love you for who you...
Dec 20th
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Dec 19th
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Anonymous asked: what is ur reason behind ur virgin mary tattoo
Dec 19th
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Anonymous asked: what is ur reason behind ur virgin mary tattoo
Dec 19th
Dec 19th
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Anonymous asked: First off, I LOVE your blog! Your strength is AMAZING, and I wish you all the love and joy your heart can handle. :)

Now, I am 24 and many of the people I hang out with are well into their 30's. I do have friends my age but they are up north, so I only get to see them every now and then. So, there is a chick here that I have become close to. She is awesome, but when we get...
Dec 19th
lose yourself.
something i’ve learned while maturing and through trial and error… never lose yourself in a relationship. we sometimes get so caught up trying to be this person for someone else that we forget who we are. then eventually you’re not happy anymore. that’s the relationship i want… one where i can be ridiculously and aimlessly myself… and it’s more than enough...
Dec 19th
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Anonymous asked: Do you ask your own questions on this ish?
Dec 19th
Anonymous asked: have you ever been cheated on by someone you truly love and care about? And when I say cheated he had sex with another girl. Like your first love kinda thing? How did you handle and go threw that.
Dec 19th
Anonymous asked: have you ever been cheated on by someone you truly love and care about? And when I say cheated he had sex with another girl. Like your first love kinda thing? How did you handle and go threw that.
Dec 18th
Anonymous asked: Do you ask your own questions on this ish?
Dec 18th
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Anonymous asked: What are your views on forgiveness when it comes to love? What if a guy didn't cheat BUT his actions and the way he was living wasn't what you considered acceptable? Ex: his actions didn't prove to you that the relationship was his main priority. Buuuuut, there's the factor of me being too firm when it comes to how a relationship should be. So it goes both ways, which is why...
Dec 18th
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vivalajulienne asked: I don't know if I'm hitting you at the wrong time or at the perfect time and I don't know if people tell you this all the time and if your tired of it or not, but your story about your mother and brother touched me so much. The fact that you are some what sane (at least in my eyes) still and not going completely crazy without the two biggest parts of your life really amazes me. You...
Dec 18th
Anonymous asked: wow. I have been on my weekend warriors shiz for the past week! I have been back and forth between you and desi dollas.
I feel like your one of my homegirls at this point... I have laughed, cried, been angry for you.. fuck and i even threw up the 3 fingers!!! I mean damn the only thing I can say to you is you are amazing. The strongest woman on the face of this fucking earth. PERIOD!!! No...
Dec 18th
Anonymous asked: Do you got plans for New Year's Eve? And what's your hat size?
Dec 18th
Anonymous asked: Do you got plans for New Year's Eve? And what's your hat size?
Dec 18th
Dec 17th
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Anonymous asked: wow. I have been on my weekend warriors shiz for the past week! I have been back and forth between you and desi dollas.
I feel like your one of my homegirls at this point... I have laughed, cried, been angry for you.. fuck and i even threw up the 3 fingers!!! I mean damn the only thing I can say to you is you are amazing. The strongest woman on the face of this fucking earth. PERIOD!!! No...
Dec 17th